Secrets: What to Share and What Not to Share

Secrets: What to Share and What Not to Share

Destructive Secrets Let me be very clear here. Sooner or later, secrets will definitely destroy your romantic relationship and will also hurt both your and your partner’s feelings in deep and sometimes unamendable ways. To determine if a secret is destructive or not,...
Are You Standing In The Way Of Your Own Happiness?

Are You Standing In The Way Of Your Own Happiness?

There will inevitably be obstacles in our paths to happiness. Along the way from where we are to where we want to be, we will encounter impediments to our ability to move ahead in life; there will be problems to solve and obstacles to overcome. Surely there will be...
It’s Cruel to Try to Shape Others…

It’s Cruel to Try to Shape Others…

…in our lives into our dreams of what they can or should be… When goals are fluid, they are constantly changing which allows for growth and acceptance of otherness. When goals are fixed, like dead skin they become crystallized as the “TRUE Destination” and the “RIGHT...
If Only We Could Refrain From Reacting…

If Only We Could Refrain From Reacting…

…when something goes wrong and our partner says or does something the wrong way. I’m sure you can remember at least a few of those instances where you felt irritated and said something that jabbed your partner and hurt their feelings… Imagine that you are driving to...