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– Michel Foucault

Where Do Our Identities Come From?

Where Do Our Identities Come From?

Recently, I see many of these TV commercials for DNA testing to discover your genetic heritage… I don’t think that there is anything wrong with wanting to know more about your generational history; I believe the problem starts when those commercials are making it...

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Be the Hero of your Dreams

Be the Hero of your Dreams

Be the hero of your dreams and you will attract into your life, all that you desire. Never wait for anything or anyone. While keeping an eye on whatever or whomever you want and doing all that it takes to make it possible to achieve that desired goal, it is absolutely...

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Be Kind to You

Be Kind to You

Be kind to yourself before taking care of your partner’s needs… Love and kindness starts with you being kind and loving to you. Sometimes people take on projects and invest all their time, energy and resources in their partners because they don’t feel worthy or...

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Secrets: What to Share and What Not to Share

Secrets: What to Share and What Not to Share

Before communicating with your romantic partner, make sure that you have considered the impact of your communication on the person you “love.” Some people are totally oblivious to the impact of their attitude, words and actions on others. Big mistake!  Before...

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Talk About It…

Talk About It…

Talk about current upsets or problems. Time will resolve NOTHING.  Only finding and addressing the root causes of the problems will help your relationship flourish and grow stronger. DO NOT point a finger at your partner and do not itemize what you have done right and...

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Listen with Love

Listen with Love

If you listen to your partner with love, there is always something in what they say that you can agree with. When your partner shares something with you, an opinion, idea or plan, do not start with saying “no” or telling them all that you disagree with them on. How...

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Show your Appreciation

Show your Appreciation

Show your love to your partner, show your appreciation of who they are and what they do for you. Smile, touch, kiss.  Send little text messages or call during the day to show that they are important to you and that you are there for them.  If you do these things and...

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What is Clean Revenge?

What is Clean Revenge?

I know of only one way to REVENGE our enemies and those who wish us ill without attracting undesirable consequences to our own lives. That REVENGE is clean and gives you the best feeling you could have ever imagined.  Curious to know what it is?  Look ahead rather...

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‘Sameness’ is a Myth

‘Sameness’ is a Myth

‘Sameness’ is a myth: the idea that we are all the same and want the same things, that there is a certain RIGHT way to go about life and relationships.  WRONG! There are only ways that work for you and those that do not work for you.  That’s all. We are different, and...

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Communicate your Expectations

Communicate your Expectations

Communicate clearly with your prospective mates about what your expectations are and what you would be willing to invest or compromise in the relationship. Negotiate, but do not insist.  Do not force them to fit your image of the ideal romantic partner for you.  Keep...

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Remove your Blinders

Remove your Blinders

Let’s find out what covers your eyes to blind you from seeing the real person in front of you rather than the one you want her/him to be. Is it that you lose sight when someone flatters you, puts you down, makes you work hard to be seen, buys you gifts, takes you to...

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