Listen with Love

Listen with Love

If you listen to your partner with love, there is always something in what they say that you can agree with. When your partner shares something with you, an opinion, idea or plan, do not start with saying “no” or telling them all that you disagree with them on. How...
Show your Appreciation

Show your Appreciation

Show your love to your partner, show your appreciation of who they are and what they do for you. Smile, touch, kiss.  Send little text messages or call during the day to show that they are important to you and that you are there for them.  If you do these things and...
What is Clean Revenge?

What is Clean Revenge?

I know of only one way to REVENGE our enemies and those who wish us ill without attracting undesirable consequences to our own lives. That REVENGE is clean and gives you the best feeling you could have ever imagined.  Curious to know what it is?  Look ahead rather...
‘Sameness’ is a Myth

‘Sameness’ is a Myth

‘Sameness’ is a myth: the idea that we are all the same and want the same things, that there is a certain RIGHT way to go about life and relationships.  WRONG! There are only ways that work for you and those that do not work for you.  That’s all. We are different, and...
Communicate your Expectations

Communicate your Expectations

Communicate clearly with your prospective mates about what your expectations are and what you would be willing to invest or compromise in the relationship. Negotiate, but do not insist.  Do not force them to fit your image of the ideal romantic partner for you.  Keep...
Remove your Blinders

Remove your Blinders

Let’s find out what covers your eyes to blind you from seeing the real person in front of you rather than the one you want her/him to be. Is it that you lose sight when someone flatters you, puts you down, makes you work hard to be seen, buys you gifts, takes you to...